Its just lust... No love....
These days all guys just want quick sex nothing else. I mean all guys are players. They use a girl and throw her away like used tissue. Now I am not against the idea of love. Yes, there was love 50 years ago. But its the 21st century. Men just need objects to satisfy their needs. They want pleasure not love. They'll use the sexy women and then not remember their names. Kids and teens are losing their virginity so young. This world has come to greed and lust only. It is impossible to find love. In the end there will be heartbreak. I mean even if they say they love you, put a sexy woman in front of him and he will jump her. They will cheat. Go to clubs and see people making out or just hooking up and one night stands is all there is today. I so hope to be proved wrong in the future but sadly that is not possible.
Love is an illusion
I am 17 years old. I am agree that I am pretty young, but since I was born I have never seen true love. People do date and they do marry each other , but they do that because of their selfish reasons. I have been in relationships a few times, but that was enough for me to understand that true love doesn't exist. Once I loved a man older than I am, and I was desperate about him, I allowed him to be really close to me, but all he wanted was sex so he left me in a year. He said he loved me more than life itself but would he go away if it was truth? I don't believe in love; my parents never loved each other, they never told each other they love one another, never hugged or kissed. I tried to love someone too, but I am not capable, I am not capable to get attached to a person, I never loved someone first, I really tried..... But I wish love existed.
Let me tap my heels together, and wave my magic wand.
Let's be realistic here, love has to be one of the worst ideas ever invented. It doesn't make sense, but the supporters of love say that it proves itself. I have yet to see a bad idea fall from the sky, and land in my lap. I have been trying to convince the world around me that it is a delusional form of reality based upon the notion that everything is 'happily ever after.' It's an age old lie that was created by poetic minds, and embedded in religious doctrines such as the Bible. When I looked at what love is, I thought it resembled the last work of Dr. Seuss. "Love is this, Love is That, and a Little Bit of Everything.'
Ideally yes, but arguably no.
In the context of 'romantic' true love, I believe that two people will feel highly attracted to each other based on a combination of hormones (e.g. oxytocin) and neurotransmitters that activate their 'reward' centers of their brain, leading to feelings of attachment to each other. The level of oxytocin released is proportional to the levels of attachment they have for each other.
That said, I'm happy to be proved wrong. I would love to fall in love with someone and grow old with them. I admire people that sit next to their partner when they are ill/going through a tough time, and give them the support, love and encouragement.
There is no love..SORRY
Sorry, but it is all a fight for dominance and power! Seduction is the strongest weapon ever invented! Cleopatra used it and succeeded! I dont think there is true love in this world! Only lust combined with insecurity, both of which we interpret as "love." Maybe there is only instinct and we act in love just to satisfy it.
Real love does not exist
You think you love someone? You can't love someone for who they are, because people can never know each other 100%. When you think you're in love, it's your mind who plays with reality, and makes your "lover" perfect for you (perfect does not exist, nor does love). Maybe you think you love someone, but I bet that one of you will love the other one more, and the one who loves most, will be used in this evil game called love. BE with someone you trust, respect and admire. Not love like a fool.
True love or lust
The definition of love is having a deep affection for someone. I believe that true love occurs over time. You invest your time into someone which causes you to love them. When people say "It was love at first sight", it causes me to wonder if it was really a deep affection sparked by looking at each other. In my opinion, it was "lust at first sight". The relationship was based solely on looks, and not on any character traits. If you look at the story of Romeo and Juliet, Romeo was madly in love with Rosaline in the beginning because she was so beautiful. He became dangerously depressed when he found he couldn't be with her. When he saw Juliet at a party one night, he completely forgot about Rosaline because Juliet was the most beautiful woman he had ever laid eyes on. This goes to show that you can not truly love someone because of how pretty they are, you fall in love based on their personality.
I hate that
Because I love one person but he is younger than me so only I feel that love is not true. I love him truly but I cant able to marry him. Because he is younger than how it possible to marry him if god makes me marry him I will be the happiest person in the world.
Always goes bad in the end
I have seen a lot of relationships in my lifetime, and ALL have failed. Even if it did last all your life, eventually it would end, because people die, you know. I also have never experienced true love, not even toward family, friends, lovers, no one. Love is just a lie people tell themselves so they aren't lonely, but sooner or later, you will be FORCED to accept it.
No, because men are created to genetically procreate with as many females as possible
If you believe in Darwinism, then you should know that a man who creates the most children succeeds in securing his genes will be passed on continuously. People confuse emotions with chemical reactions in their brain based on a code that has been inherited. Men may truly believe they are in love when in reality their brains are just fooling them to ensure fornication. It's a viscous cycle that never ends of creating more and more unfaithful men that add to our genetic pool. We may think we can transcend our biology with intelligence, yet humans are still animals last time I checked. Proof of that would be hiccups and goose bumps as they are genes we've evolved past yet still have.
True Love Does Exist Essay
Does True Love Exist?
“I love you.” These three little words might possibly be the most powerful statement one can make to another person. In life, most yearn for the intimate affection that a certain someone can provide them. Women dream of their Prince Charming to come and sweep them off their feet, while men search for the love of their life that sets their heart on fire. But what happens when love is thrown around without a second thought? Has this four letter word become an overused cliché? Has love been replaced with lust? Is there such a thing as true love? This last question has been asked throughout history, while many have argued and debated over the final answer. We, as a society, have become a loveless, sex crazed group of people with no concern for any emotion or attachment in our lives. So does this mean that true love does not exist? No. This only shows that achieving the deepest of feelings takes work that our fast-food eating, TV watching generation is not prepared to handle. I believe that true love does exist, but has merely been pushed aside by convenience, superficiality, and apathy.
It seems that over the years, true love is expressed less and less. We are bombarded with holiday cards filled with someone else’s words, and are practically forced to send our love in an email. How often do we actually sit down and write out our feelings to the one we love? “To My Dear and Loving Husband,” however, is the quintessential love letter. Anne Bradstreet shares her feelings to her husband in such a loving way that could make anyone’s heart melt. According to BellaOnline, Bradstreet was, “married to governor of Massachusetts Bay Colony and had eight children.” Even though her marriage might have become filled with routines and lost a little passion, the poet never loses the love for her husband. She states that the power of her “…love is such that rivers cannot quench”(Bradstreet, 7). Bradstreet expresses her emotions to be so strong that not even a roaring river can possibly satisfy them. She prizes her husband’s “…love more than whole mines of gold/ Or all the riches that the East doth hold,” (Bradstreet, 5-6) meaning she values his affection more than any amount of money she could obtain. The sonnet goes on to prove how everlasting true love can be when Bradstreet states, “…when we live no more, we may live ever”(12). She wishes to be in love with her husband eternally, even after they both die.
The love that Anne Bradstreet expresses in her poem, “To My Dear and Loving Husband,” may not have been the easiest thing for her to write. As a Puritan living in Boston in 1678, it was highly unacceptable for a woman to be so open with her feelings. Within her community, “any woman who sought to use her wit, charm, or intelligence …found herself ridiculed, banished, or executed by the Colony’s powerful group of male leaders”(Andregg). “Her domain was to be domestic, separated from the linked affairs of church and state,...
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